June 11, 2012

Essay on Personality Development Tips in Hindi

दोस्त बनिए पर सबसे पहले खुद अपने

अक्सर कुछ लोग अपनी ज़िंदगी से नाख़ुश होते हैं। उन्हें अपने भाग्य, अपनी किस्मत से शिकायत रहती है जैसे : मैं जो भी चाहता हूँ मुझे कभी नहीं मिलता, मेरा भाग्य मेरा साथ कभी नहीं देता या हर कार्य में मुझे असफलता मिलती है। ऐसे लोग निराशा से घिर जाते हैं और हमेशा उदास और तनावग्रस्त रहते हैं।

कुछ लोग ऐसे होते हैं जिन्हें अपने आसपास के लोगों, अपने दोस्तों और अपने रिश्तों से शिकायत रहती है जैसे : सभी मुझे इग्नोर करते हैं, मेरा मजाक बनाते हैं या मुझे कोई नहीं चाहता, कोई मदद नहीं करता। ये लोग धीरे-धीरे दुनिया से कटने लगते हैं। एकाकीपन और अवसाद के शिकार भी हो सकते हैं।

कुछ व्यक्तियों के लिए खुद से जुड़ा निर्णय लेना बहुत मुश्किल होता है जैसे : मुझे कौनसा कोर्स करना चाहिए, करियर का निर्माण किस क्षेत्र में करना चाहिए, किस क्षेत्र में मुझे सफलता मिल सकती है? ऐसे लोग अपना लक्ष्य निर्धारित नहीं कर पाते और अपने जीवन से जुड़े निर्णयों में हमेशा खुद को दोराहे पर पाते हैं। असमंजस की वजह से कई बार गलत निर्णय कर लेते हैं जिसका परिणाम सिर्फ पछतावा रह जाता हैं।

ऐसी सभी परेशानियों और समस्यायों से निज़ात पाने के लिए सबसे ज्यादा जरुरी है कि हम सबसे पहले अपने दोस्त बने और अपने साथ समय बितायें। अक्सर ज़िंदगी की भाग दौड़ में हमारे पास खुद के लिए जरा भी वक्त नहीं होता। हमारे साथ जो भी होता है हम बस उस पर अपनी प्रतिक्रिया दे देते हैं और ये नहीं सोचते कि ये क्यों हो रहा है?

हम सभी को चाहिए कि हम रोज कुछ समय सिर्फ अपने साथ बितायें। खुद से बाते करें। हमें क्या अच्छा लगता हैं, क्या बुरा लगता है, किन कार्यों से ख़ुशी मिलती है और किनसे नहीं…ये सोचें। अपने हर कार्य, अपने व्यवहार, अपने मूड, अपनी प्रतिक्रियाओं और अपने प्रत्युत्तर का निरीक्षण करें। हमारी प्रतिक्रियायें हमें कैसे प्रभावित करती हैं, हम दूसरो से कैसे इंटरेक्ट करते हैं, हमारा वातावरण हमें कैसे प्रभावित करता है, इस पर गौर करें। दिन भर हमने क्या किया, किन लोगों से मिले, क्या बात की…इस पर भी ध्यान दें।

किन लोगों का साथ हमें अच्छा लगता हैं और किनके साथ हम असहज महसूस करते हैं, हमारी कौनसी बात दूसरों की तारीफ पाती है और कौनसी बात आलोचना...इसका भी निरीक्षण कीजिये। अपने व्यवहार, अपनी भाषा, अपने रहन सहन, अपने व्यक्तित्व सभी का पूरी ईमानदारी से निरीक्षण कीजिये। अपने आलोचक बनिये और अपने प्रशंसक भी...पर पूरी ईमानदारी के साथ।

इस विश्लेषण और निरीक्षण का ये फायदा होगा की अब आप अपनी खूबियों और अपनी कमियों से अच्छे से वाकिफ़ हो जायेंगे। अपनी खूबियों को तराशिये और अपनी कमियों को दूर करने का प्रयास करिए फिर देखिये आपके व्यक्तित्व, आपकी भाषा, रहन सहन और आपके व्यवहार में कैसा निखार आता है। स्वतः ही आप लोगों का ध्यान बटोरने लगेंगे और उन सभी की नज़रों में खास बन जायेंगे।

जहाँ बात आपकी नौकरी या करियर से जुड़े निर्णयों की हो तो उसके लिए जरुरी हैं आप अपनी पसंद, नापसंद, अपनी स्ट्रेंथ और अपनी कमजोरियों को पहचाने। आप किस क्षेत्र में माहिर हैं, क्या करके आपको ख़ुशी मिलती हैं, आपके कौनसे कार्य की हर जगह तारीफ होती है और किस कार्य को करते समय आप पूरे आत्मविश्वास से भरे होते हैं, ये सब जानना बहुत जरुरी हैं।

जब हम खुद को पहचानने लगेंगे तो हमारे लिए लक्ष्य का निर्धारण आसान हो जायेगा। हमसे जुड़े निर्णय करते समय हमें दुविधा का सामना नहीं करना पड़ेगा। समय की बर्बादी से भी बचेंगे और गलत निर्णयों से भी। हम अपने भाग्य के निर्माता बनेंगे। अपने रिश्तों और अपने दोस्तों का चुनाव कर पाएंगे और रिश्तों में मधुरता आएगी। सही दिशा में सही कदम उठाकर अपने सभी सपनों को साकार कर पाएंगे और जीवन के हर क्षेत्र में सफलता हमारे कदम चूमेगी।

Monika Jain 'पंछी'
(06/2012)

June 10, 2012

Poem on Father's (Papa) Day in Hindi


(1)

पिता

ईश्वर का एक रूप पिता है
पावन सी एक धूप पिता है।

स्नेह भरा संबल पिता है
खुशियों का नभतल पिता है।

सूर्य का प्रकाश पिता है
बच्चों का आकाश पिता है।

घने पेड़ की छाँव पिता है
तूफानों में नाव पिता है।

बल, विवेक, बुद्धि पिता है
साहस की वृद्धि पिता है।

धैर्य का सागर पिता है
ज्ञान का गागर पिता है।

अनुशासन का भान पिता है
सही मार्ग का ज्ञान पिता है।

सख्त, कठोर, गरम पिता है
कोमल, तरल, नरम पिता है।

गगन पिता है, पवन पिता है
यज्ञ पिता है, हवन पिता है।

Monika Jain 'पंछी'
(06/2012)

(2)

पापा

चलना हमें सिखाते पापा
सच्ची राह दिखाते पापा
पढ़ना हमें सिखाते पापा
हमको योग्य बनाते पापा।

गाड़ी पर हमें घुमाते पापा
हमको खूब खिलाते पापा
नये खिलौने लाते पापा
हमको खूब हँसाते पापा।

गलती पर डाँट लगाते पापा
शिक्षक भी बन जाते पापा
अनुशासन हमें सिखाते पापा
अपना फर्ज निभाते पापा।

कंधों पर हमें चढ़ाते पापा
घोड़ा भी बन जाते पापा
बच्चों के संग बच्चे पापा
अच्छे पापा सच्चे पापा।

Monika Jain 'पंछी'
(06/2012)

(3)

वो पिता ही है श्रीमान्

पूरे घर की संभाले कमान
बात मन की जो ले जान
अपनी खुद की सुध छोड़
जो रखे सबका पूरा ध्यान
वो पिता ही है श्रीमान्!

पल-पल हर पल
अपनों की खुशियों की खातिर
अंगारों पे चल-चल
करता रहता जो श्रम संधान
वो पिता ही है श्रीमान्!

मांगे सबकी वह पूरा करता
पर कभी न आँहें भरता
सबके चेहरे पर लाता जो
एक प्यारी-सी मुस्कान
वो पिता ही है श्रीमान्!

गम का घूँट पीया अकेले
सबकी मुसीबत जो अपने सर ले ले
टूटता जुड़ता संभलता
हर दिन देता नया इम्तिहान
वो पिता ही है श्रीमान्!

बूँद नहीं आंसू के आँखों पर
अन्दर उमड़ रहा समंदर
सुना न पाए सबको अपनी
जो व्याकुल मन की गान
वो पिता ही है श्रीमान्!

अनिल कुमार बिहारी
ट्यूब बारीडीह, जमशेदपुर

June 9, 2012

Poem on Animals and Birds in English


(1)

Animals vs Humans

Animals are better than we humans
They don't hunt creatures of their own race
Behind attack on other species
Their motive is only hunger and self defense.

But we humans are filled with
envy, greed, hatred and selfishness
We are jealous with
our brother’s development and success.

Animals have no caste, religion and creed
In their world there is no discrimination of poor and rich
But on many issues we humans are divided
Despite of a sharp mind we are very narrow minded.

Animals live a regular life
They don't eat more than their appetite
But we humans starved of money
We kill our brothers like enemy.

Our blood and sweat is full of poison
Our senses are dead and frozen
By saying ourselves animals
We are insulting those innocent creatures.

Monika Jain 'Panchhi'
(11/02/2013)

(2)

I am a Bird

I am a bird
I can touch the sky
I am free so
I can fly very high.

Sky is my kingdom
Earth is my bed
Spreading my wings
I am feeling great.

I don't have to face
walls of religion and race
No border limits
can affect my pace.

Mosque, temple and church
Every wall is my residence
By becoming Hindu, Muslim or Christian
I don't lose my significance.

There are no rich
There are no poor
In my world
All are similar.

Monika Jain ‘Panchhi’
(06/2012)

Animals/Birds love is untainted and unconditional. We can learn many valuable lesson about forgiveness, generosity, dignity, peace, trust and love from animals. They accept us whole. They are cool with however we look and feel. They make us feel important. They respond better to our care, love and friendship. They are honest, helpful and faithful.
Animals, birds and other creatures are never ungrateful. Even in time of danger and tragedy they save our lives. When they love someone it’s clear. When they don’t it's also clear. They don’t play with feelings and emotions of anyone. They don’t know betrayal, deceit and foul play. They are better than we humans on many grounds.

June 8, 2012

Father's Day Poem in English

Father is one of the most important persons in our life. He shares very deep and faith filled relation with us. Father’s day is celebrated in the honor and respect of all the fathers on the third sunday in the month of june. The below poems are dedicated to all the fathers of this world. Let’s make this day special for our daddies.

(1)

As The Father He is God

Who teaches us to walk
secures us like rock.

Who never looks for praises
every time who encourages.

Who teaches us to read
who is best friend indeed.

Who brings us new toys
with which we all enjoy.

Who loves us a lot
scolds at our faults.

Who is loving and kind
can read our minds.

Who shows us true ways
to brighten our days.

Who is patient, helpful and strong
when the things go wrong.

Who helps us and hold
at the time of every odd.

Who makes us very bold
as the father he is God.

Monika Jain 'Panchhi'
(06/2013)

(2)

Father is Outstanding

Who is gentle, polite and intelligent
Gives us information about the world’s incidents.

Who is affectionate, dutiful and source of strength
Who is a driving force behind all our achievements.

Who listens, suggests and defends
and support like a best friend.

Who is responsible, caring and sometimes strict
Whenever we need he always assist.

Who is our guiding light
We turn to whom when things are not going right.

Who is outstanding for a variety of reasons
Who is always logical in making decisions.

Monika Jain ‘Panchhi’
(06/2012)

June 7, 2012

Poem on Books in English for Kids


(1)

It's a Book

Fellow of sorrow
Partner of happiness
Friend of joy
Companion of loneliness.

It becomes lamp
when there is darkness
Fills our future with
beauty and brightness.

It's a light
which shows the way
Ignorance and dullness
chasing away.

Increases our knowledge
and paves the way
Keeps our foolishness
far away.

Removes our worries
Removes our tension
Brings the answer of
all the questions.

Shows the truth
and finds the solution
It's a book
no need to mention.

Monika Jain 'Panchhi'
(06/2012)

(2)

Books Are Our Best Friends

Books are the gold mines of art, literature, science and information
They are the source of enlightenment and life blood of a nation.

Books never desert us, they are wonderful gift to mankind
They awaken our conscience and develop our mind.

Books give us an insight into various aspect of life
Books are our best friends, philosophers and guides

Books sharpen our intellect and broaden our mind
They are treasure house open to us day and night.

They enrich our experience and widen our knowledge
They uplift our morals and fill us with courage.

Books lift the poor out of poverty
Books uphold us at the time of adversity.

Fair weather friends fall off when our time is bad
But books encourage us when we feel sad.

The friendship of good books is the medicine of life
While selecting the books we should be judicious and wise.

Monika Jain ‘Panchhi’
(09/2012)

Books are useful in many ways. They are indeed our best companions.

June 6, 2012

Personal Development, Self Improvement Quotes in English

Personal Development  / Self Improvement Quotes

  • Often in our busy life we don't get time for us. Whatever happens, we just react on that and don't think why its happening with us. Develop the realistic understanding of your strengths and weaknesses. Spend some time with yourself and explore your strengths, your potentials and the natural talent you are born with. It will help you in determining your goal and will increase your self confidence. Also think about the things that make you feel bad about yourself. Once you have identified such things the next step is to determine what you can do to change them or improve them and work on that. This will help you in setting your goals and achieving that. This will also help you in choosing right friends and relations in your life and ultimately you will get success in every field.
  • Don't compare yourself with others. Trust your guts. Develop a can-do attitude and everything else will follow. Write down the tasks and goals you want to achieve in a day. Having a list of written plans and instructions means you have a set of actions to perform each day, each one taking you towards your goal. 
  • Don't wait for others to bring success to yourself. Develop the quality of self help. Most successful is one who depends least on others. Quality of self help makes the person self confident and self reliant. 
  • When you don't know something it gives you opportunity to learn. Your troubles make you strong. Your mistakes teach you valuable lessons. Your limitations provide you an opportunity for improvement. Your difficult time help you in growing yourself. It's only your positive attitude that can make difference. 
  • Keep learning. Develop some new hobbies. Join new courses and gain new knowledge and skills. Learn from people who inspire you. Learn from your friends. Learn from everyone. 
  • Don't fear being alone, Learn to like yourself. Don't fear failure, keep trying. Don't fear rejection, have faith in yourself. Don't fear truth, try to see the ugliness in lies. Don't fear dark, see the beauty of starlight. Don't fear destiny, you have power to change your life. 
  • Many times I read 'Don't change yourself for the sake of others'. I can't understand what is bad in changing yourself if it is necessary and good for all. You are not a stone. You are alive so don't be so rigid and always be open for good change in your attitude. The real fact is that you can only change yourself not others. One should always be open to accept new thoughts and suggestions and improve one's thinking. 
  • Be generous and help others with your smile, knowledge, money and other things. Don't laugh at people when they are in difficulty or trouble. Listen everyone politely. Try to remove the feeling of inferiority in others by loving them and by keeping good behavior towards them. 
  • Accept the things which are not in your hands. In this way you can become much happier person. Because when a problem cannot be solved there is no use of worrying. 
  • Everyday you should try something that you fear to do. Move out of your comfort zone as it will help in boosting your self confidence. If you keep doing things you are already comfortable with, you are not improving yourself. Learn something new everyday. 
  • Have a positive attitude. Develop self confidence. Learn from your mistakes, accept your shortcomings and strive for improvement. 
  • Don't read just to enrich your vocabulary...do read to enrich your mind too.
  • Don’t read to strengthen your ego...do read to break the wall of it. 
  • Be good in eyes of yourself before desiring to be good in eyes of others.
  • Be the self motivator. Self-motivation works better than any other source of motivation. 
  • Learn to deal with difficult people. 
  • Commit to your personal growth.

Monika Jain 'Panchhi'
(06/2012)

June 5, 2012

Poem on Environment Pollution in English


It's Time to Prevent

Water is not worth drinking
Air is not worth breathing
Land is not worth living
O God! What's happening?

Noise is unbearable
Food is not edible
Diseases are incurable
Now this is unavoidable.

Forests are disappeared
Animals are endangered
Rivers are polluted
We are badly affected.

O man! please awake
We are now unsafe
If we won't take step
No one will escape.

We will have to regret
We will have to repent
It's time to prevent
Our tamper with environment.

Monika Jain 'Panchhi'
(06/2012)

June 4, 2012

Poem on Rose Flowers in English for Kids

(1)

Flowers

Flowers are the gift of god
They are full of colors
Flowers are the pride of spring
They give smile to us.

Flowers can bloom in mud
They can defeat all odds
Flowers are very soft
But they can grow in thorns.

Flowers live unitedly
They don't show any discrimination
Flowers teach tenderness
They always give inspiration.

Flowers are soul of garden
They are cute and colorful
They are beyond the casteism
They are unique and beautiful.

Monika Jain 'Panchhi'
(06/2012)

(2)

Rose

Rose!
You are so beautiful
You are very pleasing
You bloom in thorns
You are really amazing.

Sun rays feel shy
When they see your aura
You are the king of flowers
So pleasing your aroma.

By staying in books 
You become love memories
You add flavour
in so many love stories.

You show the way to live
You are so auspicious
You smile among thorns
You are very courageous.

Rose!
You are so beautiful
You are very pleasing
You bloom in thorns
You are really amazing.

Monika Jain 'Panchhi'
(23/07/2013)

June 3, 2012

Poem on Independence Day of India in English

(1)

Our Freedom is a Slave

What kind of freedom is this
and What type of independence?
Inflation is touching the sky and
Population is on increased pace.

What kind of government is this
and What type of leaders?
They are looting our country
like foreign traders.

Tug of Languages
Poison of regionalism
Fight of reservation
and Riots of communalism!

Our protectors have become the devourer
Where to go for appeal?
Our freedom is a slave
In this situation how to deal?

Monika Jain 'Panchhi'
(06/2012)

(2)

India

Freedom of India is defined by :

Cycle of corruption
Threats of violation.

Peaceful India is defined by :

Trap of terrorism
Riots of communal-ism.

Unity of India is defined by :

Poison of regionalism
Termite of racism.

Prosperity of India is defined by:

Increase of inflation
Bait of reservation.

Sacred India is defined by :

Grip of vulgarism
Rape of humanism.

Put your hand on your heart and think again :

Are we really living in
Free, peaceful, sacred and prosperous India?

Monika Jain 'Panchhi'
(06/2012)

June 2, 2012

Poem on Save Trees in English

Do Yourself a Favor

Trees are the ornaments of earth
They Make the environment pollution free
To save the life on earth
Every person should grow at least a tree.

Trees are the great donors
They are not less than god to us
They provide shelter to
many insects, animals and birds.

Trees provide us cool shadow
and protect us from scorching sun
They provide us fruits, flowers and many things
yet they expect nothing in return.

Trees are good sources of
medicinal herbs, lace and raw materials for industries
We get resins, natural gums, woods
and many more things from the trees.

They give us oxygen to breathe in
and absorb the carbon dioxide
Trees are our best friend
They exist so that we can survive.

Trees check the soil erosion
and maintain its fertility
They help in drought and flood control
and add in natural beauty.

They cause rainfall and
protect water resources under the ground
The hazardous effects of global warming will reduce
When we will plant more and more trees around.

No one is benevolent like trees
Everything they give us is free
But we the humans are very cruel
We unnecessarily cut the trees for fuel.

Please love the plants and trees
and have a friendly behavior
By planting and caring them
do yourself a favor.

Monika Jain 'Panchhi'
(06/2012)

Deforestation is the major problem nowadays. It is creating many environmental problems such as pollution, global warming, soil erosion etc. It is time to save forests for our own future. We should promote afforestation otherwise one day will come when it will become impossible to survive on this earth. So save trees and save our planet.

June 1, 2012

Poem on Save Water in English

Save Water to Save Life

Water is the nature’s precious gift to mankind
It is the lifeblood of the planet
No one can live without water
So conserve water to help you and the environment.

Water is the basis of life
It relieves us from heat
It quenches the thirst of every creature
It makes us clear and neat.

Water is inevitable source of energy
It can recharge our weariness
It can revitalize our skin
It helps to absorb nutrients.

It's the ornament of earth
Becomes cloud and sends rain
It gives pleasure in the form of waterfall
Becomes river and flows again.

It becomes pearl of oyster
It is savior of all
Gives greenery to trees
and life to soil.

Water is a mean of communication
It is used to carry our goods and trade
It is essential for the growth of forests
It is used in the manufacturing of many products.

Water is a privilege
A lot of us taking it for granted
Desperately using of water is a bad sign
It should be strictly avoided.

Drinking water is a rare commodity
It needs careful planning and management
As water is an integral part of our daily life
On which we are heavily dependent.

Recognize the value of water
Save it to save life
Otherwise the day will come
When no one will survive.

Save water for the earth, family and community
Save water to fight against global warming situations
Save water for the social and economic development
Save water for the survival of our future generations.

Monika Jain 'Panchhi'
(06/2012)